Saying “I do” is a big moment—one you may have been looking forward to for months, or even years. Your love will be affirmed, surrounded by all the people who matter most to you. Quite a thing, right? So how do you know which celebrant is the right fit for you?

I’m Esther—the face behind Esther Trouwt—and I’ve been a wedding officiant for over 20 years. Celebrant. Registrar. And I do this both in the Netherlands and in Italy.

Over the years, I’ve learned one thing above all else: it’s incredibly important to have someone by your side who knows how it all works and understands the emotions involved. I bring calm, take the lead when needed, and make sure everything is just right. I’m good with words, but I’m also someone who can tell what’s needed with just a single glance.